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It's OK, Feed Your Baby!

Is protecting a woman from harassment for public breastfeeding the same as APPLAUDING her for breastfeeding in public?

As I was scanning through posts and pictures on Facebook, I found an image that looked like many women I know. Many women just like me. Educated, hard-working, trying to do-it-all Mothers.  Two women breastfeeding their babies while trying to get ready for a photo shoot for a magazine. I was intrigued by the casual matter-of-fact tone to this campaign and decided to share it with an audience of facebook viewers that were not my "friends."

I posted this picture on WTNHs wall on 2/10/12, I was suprised when at one week's time, there are more than 70 comments, 135 shares and 320 likes.  Some commented on whether or not the breast was showing. Some commented on the ages of the babies. Most comments were support of a woman's right to breastfeed in public.

According to Louisa Currie (with her then 19 month old son Zac on the right), "The image that's been used came about because we were having some shots done for a magazine article on Mums in Business (or Mumpreneurs as we call ourselves) and both our boys wanted to have a feed. Originally the shot was only ever going to be for our private albums, but on compiling the survey results we just felt compelled to do something to reassure other Mums that it really is ok to feed your baby, whenever they need to be fed!" http://bellybeyond.blogspot.co.nz/2010/08/extended-breastfeeding-shot-makes-it.html

According to The American Academy of Pediatrics, "Newborns should be nursed whenever they show signs of hunger, such as increased alertness or activity, mouthing, or rooting" and "It is recommended that breastfeeding continue for at least 12 months, and thereafter for as long as mutually desired. AMERICAN ACADEMY OF PEDIATRICS, Work Group on Breastfeeding Breastfeeding and the Use of Human Milk (1997)

So you may say, but that's in New Zealand, a country known to be breastfeeding friendly. But here in Connecticut, USA, we just recently celebrated the fourth Connecticut hospital to receive the Baby Friendly Hospital Initiative. 

That seems like a good start on a road to becoming a breastfeeding friendly state.  We even have laws to protect woman from being harrassed while breastfeeding in public.  But is protecting a woman from harrassment for public breastfeeding the same as APPLAUDING her for breastfeeding in public?


 

Dana Schmidt, RN, IBCLC February 22, 2012 at 12:32 pm
Thank you to the Hamden Patch!
Sarah Gagne February 22, 2012 at 03:22 pm
Congratulations on your first blog Dana! Can't wait to read more!
Karyn Putney February 25, 2012 at 12:05 am
That's a great question Dana! I'm not sure if they are the same...I'm sure some moms have made the decision not to breastfeed who would still stand up for the rights of other women to do so. Moms that do breastfeed certainly do need support (like yours!) because it's HARD! And unfortunately for those who struggle one negative comment or disapproving look may be the difference between long term success and giving up. Thank goodness for moms, nurses and lactation specialists such as yourself for offering support, person and public education and the facts about breastfeeding! Keep
Up the great work Dana!
Marty February 25, 2012 at 12:48 am
Maybe I am old fashion, but I would prefer not to see women breastfeeding in public. If I were a woman I would not want to breastfeed in public. Yes breastfeeding is best for the baby and by all means, do it. But when I am walking in the mall with my 4 year old grandson I really don't want to have to answer his questions if he sees it. If you are going to do it, at least cover the baby. I can't imagine why you would want to have everyone in the area see your breast. Maybe I'm a prude, I don't know. But that is how i feel.
Dana Schmidt, RN, IBCLC February 25, 2012 at 03:50 am
When walking with your 4 year old grandson this is great opportunity to answer questions about nurturing!
Eileen Denny February 25, 2012 at 03:15 pm
Great post Dana. Looking forward to more!!
Alisa February 25, 2012 at 03:30 pm
My 3 year old goddaughter just asked me last night what my son was doing while I breastfeeding him. I told her he was drinking milk and that was how Mammas feed their babies. She asked how, and I told her. She was completely cool with it. She was BF herself, although she doesn't remember. Kids NEED to know about breast feeding. Bottom line... It's a natural, NORMAL way to feed an infant. That being said, why hide it?
Laura Goodwin-Wright February 26, 2012 at 04:23 am
Great blog! Keep up the good work!
Jennifer Welch, IBCLC February 26, 2012 at 04:27 am
Marty, most babies will not tolerate a cover. I know I sure don't like to eat with a blanket over my head, do you?. And most of the time a baby nursing looks very similar to a baby sleeping in his mamas arms, only a fellow breastfeeding mum would recognize the subtle way the shirt wrinkles when a baby is nursing. Chances are if you are seeing any flesh, you have leaned in for a closer look, perhaps not realizing babe was having his lunch. I see more cleavage on non-breastfeedng woman as they walk down the street or hang out at the local mall than I do when a baby is eating, why is it suddenly a problem if a baby is there?. Why is is so difficult to explain to your grandson? Baby is having his lunch. His mama makes milk for him in her body and he drinks it. We are mamals, that is what we do. This is how human babies are supposed to eat.

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